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English: United Airlines Flight 175 crashes in...

English: United Airlines Flight 175 crashes into the south tower of the World Trade Center complex in New York City during the September 11 attacks (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

This is a re-post from 2008.  I’m glad to say that finally, the gaping hole where the Towers used to be is finally filled.  The memorial busy and reverent. But 9-11 wasn’t the only collapse in downtown Manhattan.  When I wrote this post, the financial crisis was just starting.  9-11 is now more than a decade past, but the scars still hold, the wounds still hurt.  And NYC’s other downtown collapse – well, it’s only just begun re-building.

The other day, I went down to Wall Street. While I was there, I couldn’t help but look for signs of the evil arch-enemy of Main Street politicians keep talking about.  I was hoping to see the callous, ultra-rich, a-moral, self-serving “Masters of the UniverseTom Wolfe wrote about back in the eighties–the women wearing shoulder pads that made them look as tough as line-backers, the men smoking cigars that cost more than some people made in a week.  Instead, I saw  exhaustion.  Tired senior executives, harried young businessmen, “runners” heading home too tired to remove their tell-tale jackets.  I also saw the same thing I see everywhere in New York: people getting ready to go out for the evening, working mothers on their cell-phones telling their babysitters they were running late.  It wasn’t a disaster area, but those Masters of the Universe – - they were no where in sight.

Then, as I reached Pearl Street, I saw something.  Not the kind of Master I had expected, but a Master nonetheless.  There, on the sidewalk, it’s cord and plug snaking out behind it, was a Stairmaster looking as if it were waiting to be used, waiting for a second chance. And suddenly, I had as apt a metaphor for what’s been happening in the financial sector as any I’d heard. (more…)

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R Baby PSA Ad 300x250I know it’s hard to believe, but sometimes being a blogger brings things that are even better than swag:  like the ability to participate in this year’s R Baby Foundation Gala.  Before I say anything more, look at this:
Yes, that’s me, looking all earnest.  But it’s kind of hard not to be earnest about this charity, because what they do, is work to make every emergency department in every hospital equipped to treat babies.  You probably thought they already were.  I did.  But they aren’t.  And how’s this fact? Babies born in the US are twice as likely to die than many other developed countries, including Sweden, Japan and Spain; the United States is ranked 36th among 196 nations.  That is sad. And wrong.

But this is the statistic that really gets me: Children make up 27% of all emergency department (ED) visits, but only 6% of EDs in the U.S. have the necessary supplies for pediatric emergencies.

Six Percent.  That means 94 percent of the time someone takes their baby to the hospital, that hospital is not fully equipped to take care of them. Not equipped to take care of a baby.  Think about that.  Scary.

So that’s why I’m involved with the organization, and with the Gala this coming week honoring my friendand tireless advocate Julia Beck.  I’m joining other bloggers like Esti Berkowitz, Amy Oztan, Jessica Shyba, Melissa Chapman, Linda Grant, Nicole Feliciano, Rebecca Martin, Jennifer Perillo, Rebecca Levey and many more to help raise awareness about the charity…and the babies.

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We’re talking babies here, people.  And as someone who comes from a family where once, long ago, a baby did die, I know the lasting effect it has on a family.  No family should have to deal with the loss of a child because a hospital isn’t prepared.  Don’t just read this and shake your head.  Click the links.  Donate.  Don’t let the babies down. -

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Lamar River Valley

Image by gharness via Flickr

My kids don’t need me any more.

Well, OK. Maybe that’s a bit harsh.  They still need me.  I still cook their food, and bandage their boo boos, and at least for a bit longer – tuck them in at night.  But this week, they’ve taken a big giant step away from me.

Earlier this week – early in the morning -  at 4:30 a.m. to be exact – I dropped my kids off in front of their school for a class trip. A five day-long class trip to the Lamar Valley in Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming. It’s an incredible opportunity for the kids to visit a National Park as part of an educational program called Expedition Yellowstone that gives them access to parts of the Park not usually open to visitors.

In the unspoiled vastness that is Yellowstone National Park – they’re going to the ” un-spoiledest” part.

They will track wolves, test soil, study weather patterns.  And given the terrain there, do most of it on snowshoes –the only way to get through a season’s worth of accumulated snow.  They will sleep in bunks – with a communal bathroom in a separate building, cook their own meals, keep their cabins clean.

In other words, they’ll be on a serious, independent trip. Without me.

I am happy for them.  I am.  Truly.  But I can’t but feel a little bit sad. They are, for the first time, going on a real, honest to goodness trip  – having an extraordinary experience – that they won’t be sharing with me.  They’ve been to camp.  But though I missed them enormously, it didn’t feel the same.  I’ve been to camp.  I understand camp.  I know what it is they were experiencing even if I didn’t experience it right along with them.  This trip to Yellowstone, though, will be the first time they go someplace that is completely foreign to me.

It feels like a big giant step away from childhood, and into independence.  Which is, of course, the point of parenting:  you teach your kids, you give them the skills and the confidence to become independent.  But part of that independence is leaving you behind.  Leaving me behind.

So it’s with a bit of sadness and a lot of pride that I watch them tackle this big step: the cross country flight, the less-than-comfortable conditions, the extreme weather, the spectacular scenery, the unique learning experience that is this big trip to Yellowstone.

And me?  Well, for the first time in the nearly 11 years since the kids were born, the DH and I are away together – alone.  It’s a bit weird, perhaps because we’ve come to Long Boat Key, a place we’ve been to with the kids countless times (hey, the price is right: we stay in my parents’ condo while they are back in NY) But I can’t complain.  While it may be odd to be without the kids, the ability to sleep in, to go out without getting a sitter, to sit on the beach and read, to take yoga in the middle of the day, to go out to a restaurant and not worry that it won’t have anything to suit my picky eater.  Well, that’s a step towards our own couple-independence that I am loving.

So I guess the kids are moving up and on…and so are we.

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Today is Pearl Harbor Day, the anniversary of the terrible attack on US Soil that finally (finally) got the United States to fully engage in World War II, and not too many people seem to care.

Of course there are remembrances here and there, and moments of silence on military bases and ships around the globe, but in the general, everyday consciousness of Americans…this huge, historic, sad, shocking event is all but forgotten.  I know virtually no details of what happened.  But from what I hear, for years and years afterwards, it was treated the same way the September 11th attacks are treated now. So what happened?

You might say, well, it’s been 69 years.  No one remembers.  But I wonder, would you be so quick to dismiss commemoration of the 9/11 attacks?  Can you imagine a time when no one really thinks about the those attacks anymore?  When the site downtown is just another place of business? The Plaza they build just another place for office workers to catch some rays, have a cigarette, and enjoy their lunch?  It seems impossible.  But so did it seem impossible for the same thing to happen with Pearl Harbor.

And yet here we are.

Is there a shelf-life for remembrance?  Is there an expiration date on honoring those who lost their lives in a tragic attack?

Every year in NYC on the anniversary of the September 11th attacks, the families of those who died gather and listen and the names of the dead are read aloud.   If the attitude towards the anniversary of Pearl Harbor is any indication, that level of remembrance will be long over, long before I’ve forgotten that day.  In some day in the not-too-distant future, the 9/11 attacks will be reduced to a mention on the local news and an interview with some octogenarian who was there. Seems impossible, but inevitable.

I’m not even sure how I feel about that.  Maybe it’s better not to hold onto our grief forever.  Maybe it’s healthier not to relive, year after year, our loss.  Maybe, once the vast majority of people directly effected by the loss of life – the families and friends – of those who died have died themselves, it’s time to move on.

But maybe we shouldn’t forget.  Maybe the names of those who died in Pearl Harbor should be read aloud every year, even if there aren’t as many people standing there to hear them.

Living through September 11th, smelling the smoke days later, cooking and delivering food to the people working at the site in the days and months following the attacks, watching week after week of funerals at the church around the corner – funerals for firefighters, and fathers, and secretaries, and who knows who else…it’s not something I want to remember…but it’s certainly something I’ll never forget.

I may not have been alive during the Pearl Harbor attacks. And before September 11th, 2001, Pearl Harbor Day may not have been on my radar.  But it is now.  So to those who did live through it.  Or to those who lost family and friends.  Here’s to you. Here’s to the men (because then, it was mostly men) who lost their lives.

You are not forgotten.

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